A story to tell you…
Once upon a time, there was a family who God called to serve Him. The family thought about it and the dad and mom said, “Yes.” When they said, “Yes,” they didn’t know what God wanted them to do, they just knew that they wanted to do it.
The family found that even though they had told God that they would lay down their lives to follow Him, there were times when it was unclear exactly what He wanted. So a few years ago, they felt God calling again to surrender to Him at an even deeper level. They had a child who had Down syndrome, they had visited Ukraine several times, they had seen the terrible plight of the orphan there (especially the special needs orphans and the older orphans – both completely unwanted by society).
They came home from a trip to Ukraine and thought they had figured God out. They started getting their house ready to sell and were preparing to move their family to Ukraine to work with special needs orphans. They imagined they would have a private home for orphans with Down syndrome – in Ukraine.
After several months of preparations, God said, “No. That’s not what I’m asking you to do. Just wait on me.”
A couple of years passed and even though the family had said, “God, anything You want, You can have,” it was becoming more and more difficult to wait on Him. But finally, He called again and the family knew they were to adopt a child with Down syndrome from Ukraine. So the family started the process and one child turned into two children. The family saw God do AMAZING miracles to make the adoption possible. They learned more about their Heavenly Father than they had ever known before. They found out that God’s heart is bent toward the orphan. They remembered that they, too, had once been orphans and that God had adopted them…saved them from certain death.
God had called them to do the same. So they did. During the entire journey toward adoption, a little girl had caught their eye, but God lead them definitely to two boys, hand-picked for them by God, Himself. The little girl with pig-tails had been chosen by a couple of families but for reasons known only by the Father, those adoptions did not happen. So once again, this precious cherub was on the at risk list because she was in danger of being sent to a mental institution to wait for certain early death.
Finally, another family stepped forward and started the process of getting the paperwork done and the orphanage made the decision to keep her in the baby home instead of moving her to the institution. And everyone breathed a sigh of relief.
The Father had another plan. The new family went to Ukraine to meet her and bring her home, but something happened that changed their plans and they were unable to complete the adoption. She was to be transferred immediately to institution since she was not going to be adopted.
A few months ago, the family that had thought they would one day have a private home for orphans with Down syndrome in Ukraine realized that maybe God was building that home here in the United States. God cultivated this in their hearts and when the girl became available again for adoption, they said, “she’s ours.”
So…yes. The Malone Nine is about to become the Malone Ten.
Our hearts ache for the family that was unable to adopt her, but we know that God’s plans are always much better than ours even when they are gut-wrenching. We have NO DOUBT that God has always meant for little Ruslana to be part of the Malone clan and that He had planned everything so that at just the right moment, it would happen. We don’t understand His hand sometimes, but we trust His heart.
We have SO much to tell, but for now, please meet our little girl, Ruslana (we have another name but we aren’t ready to share that yet).
Blessed be the Name of the Lord! Check back soon for more exciting things God is doing.
December 8, 2009 at 1:11 PM
Here we GROW again!
We are so very happy for your whole family. Children ARE a blessing. I am most happy for Ruslana, she deserves a Forever Family. I can hardly wait to snuggle with her myself. I'm sure she and Macey will be great friends, their only a month apart in age. I had no idea when I posted about Ruslana last month on our own blog she would be coming home, HERE. God is so Good! We are excited to follow this amazing journey HE has for you guys. Thanks for sharing it with us.
Love you!
Blessings,
Meghan
December 8, 2009 at 1:13 PM
congratulations to all of you, including Ruslana!!!!
yah!! so happy that it is all clear now :)
December 8, 2009 at 1:17 PM
I knew it! When I read they weren't taking her I knew they weren't meant to be her family. I even told 2 people that God had her "real" family still waiting. PRAIE GOD!!!
December 8, 2009 at 1:19 PM
This makes me teary with Joy for you all. How wonderful!!!!! Congrats!!! She is absolutely a doll baby.
December 8, 2009 at 1:23 PM
Oh my gosh, yay! Go get that baby!
December 8, 2009 at 1:23 PM
What can one say but AMEN! And Hallelujah!
Healing and peace will come and envelope those who couldn't bring her home. Joy is overflowing in Heaven today because Gods plans are so awesome!
Very, VERY excited!
December 8, 2009 at 1:26 PM
I am a friend of the family that thought Ruslana was theirs. I am speechless and so very thankful that God has taken care of this sweet girl so quickly after their return home.
IN AWE of His heart for the orphans,
Holly
www.purposedrivenfamily.blogspot.com
December 8, 2009 at 1:36 PM
Thank you! It made me sick to think of her being transferred so soon! She has had so many families love her, but not be able to bring her home.
December 8, 2009 at 1:50 PM
I've been praying for Ruslana for so many months now, and was heartbroken yesterday at the thought of her being transferred. Praising God for calling your family, and praying for swiftness and safety in your preparations to bring her home.
Jennifer
Mom to William from Ukraine
http://littleboydove.blogspot.com
December 8, 2009 at 1:51 PM
Praise God!! Thank you for hearing His voice and listening to Him! You are going to be so blessed (again) for adding this beautiful child to your family. Congratulations!!!
December 8, 2009 at 2:08 PM
Wow, amazing news!!
December 8, 2009 at 2:16 PM
How wonderful! I'm so excited for your family and for Ruslana! I can't wait to follow along!
Amanda - Adopting "Little One"
December 8, 2009 at 2:56 PM
Wow! Tears of joy are running down my face. Praise the Lord!
December 8, 2009 at 3:35 PM
I just shared on your facebook as well. God is so good and awesome! Thank you for listening to that call! Ruslana is so lucky to have you! I am truly so deeply touched by your kindness.
Kelli Stever
ourlittlenoodles.blogspot.com
December 8, 2009 at 3:59 PM
Praise God and Congratulations!
Amy
December 8, 2009 at 6:07 PM
I'm grinning from ear to ear!!!! I'm SO HAPPY to hear this news!! Ruslana has NO IDEA the blessings she is about to receive from the incredible family she is about to join!!
I can't begin to tell you how happy I am to hear this!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
December 8, 2009 at 7:42 PM
This is awesome!!!!!! It's wonderful that God was able to get the other family over there - even though they could not bring her home, they were able to open your eyes as to what He was needing to be done! It's wonderful how people work together to save these angels, even though they don't know it at the time!
December 8, 2009 at 7:56 PM
Yeah God!!
So happy for you and for Ruslana!
Kimmie
mama to 7
one homemade and 6 adopted
December 8, 2009 at 8:07 PM
Congratulations! So excited for y'all! Jealous, in fact!
December 8, 2009 at 9:50 PM
I have been crying tears of joy for Ruslana all day... following my tears of sadness from the day before. I am SO thankful that God's plan has been made perfectly clear. We are praying for you all!
December 9, 2009 at 4:39 AM
Rejoicing with you as the Lord shares His concern for this dear one with you. I am praying with you! May the unity of the many that are praying for Ruslana move the mountains that are keeping Ruslana from a loving family. Lord, reveal again Your Father heart to rescue the little ones!
December 9, 2009 at 8:06 AM
We love the Malone's, ALL TEN OF YOU! We are honored and blessed to call you friends.
December 9, 2009 at 2:26 PM
Wonderful news!
God bless!!
December 9, 2009 at 2:35 PM
Such beautiful words!! God truely has blessed your family with several little miracles! Bless you and yor travels to bring that precious smile home!!
December 9, 2009 at 4:41 PM
Oh I LOVE that story!!!!!
May God Bless you and your family!!!!
December 15, 2009 at 2:17 PM
I am the would have been grandma for Ruslana if she had made it home with my son and his wife. We are all heartbroken that we didn't get her home but glad that they played a part in keeping her out of the institution until her forever family could get her. May God Bless you for answering the call. Post a picture occasionally so we can see her grow.