Thursday, September 3, 2009

This Time Last Year...  

We were in the thick of fundraising and the excitement was nearly unbearable! We were heading into the unknown but were very excited about it. If we had known everything then that would happen up until today, would we have done it anyway? Hmm.....let me think.... YES! YES!! YES!!!

This was the weekend that we not only had our first fundraising effort, but this marks a year since Eli had his 2nd fundoplacation and g-tube put in. Probably, it also marked when the TEC started (though we can't be sure about that).

It marks a year since Blake started high school. A year since Hannah started junior high.

What a year!

Yesterday was a hard day at school for Micah, but he did GREAT at church in his new class!

TODAY... Eli had a dentists appointment today. His two front teeth have always looked "dead". But he is now in a medical condition that we felt if something needed to be done, it could be. Thankfully, they are fine and nothing needs to be done. The doc did tell us that he has ground his teeth in the back nearly to the nerves (that sounds like it would hurt if he breaks through). He said when that happens, we will have to act, but now is not the time. Unfortunately there is simply nothing that can be done to stop him. If someone has an idea BESIDES a mouthpiece of some kind, we'd love to hear it. He doesn't just do it when he sleeps. He likes the sensory stimulation he gets from it.

At the dentist, they had to wait a good bit of time and Micah was out of control. Trying to hit Mary and screaming. He didn't want to be in the stroller. He NEVER does that with me. It's frustrating to both of us. She disciplines him much more than I do and doesn't let him have an inch, but he doesn't have the same respect for her. I think that's normal for all kids, but maybe you get more used to it when you have them from birth. I don't know. We are getting weary of the behavior problems. He's our first child with discipline issues and we frankly don't know what else to do. We are definitely needing to PRAY MORE and PRAY MORE TOGETHER and PRAY WITH HIM about it. Unfortunately, that's sometimes our last resort. If we could just keep him at home all the time, it'd be great! He's generally very good at home.

Enough of that! Blake has his first football game tomorrow night (he's in marching band). Mary's gonna try to go over and watch. I have an engagement that I had before I found out when the first game was. Blake's great at springing stuff on you the day before or just a few days before and there's sometimes no way to change plans that quickly...especially with church stuff or when others are involved. I sure wish I could be there for his first game though. Ugh.

Here's a picture of Hannah, Bethany & Seth that I found that is too cute! It's from the fall festival last year. 2 magicians and a mime. (Hey! Maybe I could get Micah to be a MIME!!! Mimes are quiet right??? :-) ).

Okay...there's more than one. Eli in the middle and then there's this one. YES...our Christmas tree was UP October 31 (not decorated yet, but we were in the process). At that point, if we were going to miss Christmas with the Kids, we were going to have it early. Of course we ended up not going to Ukraine until February 13. :-)

I have more pics of the kids that I will post in another post. This post is LONG ENOUGH!

In case I haven't reported it, I'm returning to Ukraine September 15.

And finally...if you missed the article about our family in the Baptist Messenger here in Oklahoma, it reappeared in the Baptist Press. Here's a link... http://baptistpress.com/BPnews.asp?ID=31174

Blessed be the name of the LORD!


Wednesday, September 2, 2009

The last few days...  

Yes...I know I have not posted in several days.  :-)


Yesterday with Micah and school and really all day was a GREAT day!  So of course I was expecting today to be a crash and burn day.  It was.  It's really frustrating but GOD KNOWS all about it.  He had new things today at school (the library, therapy) and any change just does him in!  

Tonight at church he will be moved to a special needs class because we don't want him in AWANA and the class that he's been in all summer (one of the three year old classes) begins AWANA tonight.  The only other option is the two-year old class and that's not a good option.

So I hope that he can do with another change today and doesn't go berserk!!!  And I hope we don't go berserk!!!  I also fear that the kids in the class will remind him of the kids in the institution where he came from because some of them have the same sorts of limitations that these kids do.  If he's reminded of that place, I don't know how he'll react.  He is so tender under the toughness.  He's just a baby emotionally and I pray that God would heal his little heart and mind.

Everyone else...continues to do very well!  I'll post more soon and I have some pics to post but first I must get them off of the camera.

Blessed be the Name of the Lord!

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Artwork  

Look at these chubby little hands!! And on the purple print you can even see his extra thumb.
Too cute.

Last night, Eli also had an art project of sorts. They made fruit loop necklaces. He ate it on the way home and when he got in the house, it was gooped all over his face and hands. Wish I had a picture to upload.

Either Matthew didn't make anything or didn't bring it home. :-(

Blessed be the Name of the Lord.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Some New Old Pictures of Micah (then Misha)  

Here are some pictures of our precious Micah from a couple of trips made by Mission to Ukraine. There were at Christmas 2008 and during January/February 2009 (just before we met him).



We never saw this high chair in the area they ate, but it may have been in the "physical therapy" room that was used as a storage room. He's clearly restrained and not eating. He is a bundle of energy and perhaps they just felt the need to have a break. :0) Isn't he sweet?


That's our Micah...wanting to be involved in anything and everything. Never left out. Bless his heart, he couldn't see those pictures at all with his vision. I wonder what the brain does to make up for that.


Doesn't he look happy to be held? Ha. This was at their Christmas party.


Decorating (or at least throwing ornaments at) the tree.

Mary showed him these pictures this morning. He clearly remembers this place. He wanted to see all the pictures. Then he kissed Mary and jumped down to play. (Probably to unroll a whole roll of toilet paper into the toilet. While I'm on the subject, he never saw toilet paper until we got our hands on him...how does he know to unroll it all into the toilet? Is this instinct built in to all little boys????)

We marvel at the blessing he is to our family. Hopefully today will be a good day at school! :-)

No s-p-i-t-t-i-n-g we hope.

Blessed be the Name of the Lord

Oh...several have asked how the "clean" eating is going. It's going great and I feel GREAT. I'll share more about why I'm doing it some day, but not today. But I'm on day 8 of no sugar, no gluten, no dairy. That's NONE at all. It's amazing how good I feel. It's definitely worth it!

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Quick Update  

We got Eli's blood results yesterday and they are GREAT!  That's good news.  It still doesn't explain his lethargy, etc so we are going to take him to an endocrinologist because we don't know what else to do.  We don't want something to slip by us that could prove to be more of a problem later!


Matthew started therapy yesterday and did very well they said!

Micah spit and hit all day at school.  They didn't call us for some reason.  Ugh.  The IEP is supposed to be revised this week to include spraying his mouth with vinegar when he spits.  That works like a charm at church!  (In fact, it was suggested to us by another aide at his school.).

So I'll update more later.  I think we might be able to arrange a few pictures too!

Blessed be the Name of the Lord!

Friday, August 21, 2009

A Great Blessing...  


If you've been a reader for long, you know that when we got home from Ukraine with Micah and Matthew, we had an amazing baby shower and received diapers to last 5 or 6 months. Well, we're into the last package of diapers. It's been 5 months. THAT was a HUGE blessing. We were SO GRATEFUL to not have to buy diapers during this time at all.


The phone rang last night and it was someone telling us that her and a group of people have decided that they would like to provide diapers for us for the next six months!!!!

Isn't that AMAZING how God makes provision. And at just the right time!!!

What a truly amazing blessing. Gratefulness doesn't describe our feelings.

Blessed be the Name of the Lord

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Micah & others  

Micah had a HORRIBLE day yesterday.  In fact, he was biting and hitting other kids and the school called us and told us we needed to come up and do something (they aren't allowed to discipline kids at all unless it's in the IEP as a specific response to a specific behavior...ugh)--(needless to say we are going to be revamping the IEP next week).  So Mary and I both went up and was he surprised!!  I did the disciplining and we also explained a little more to the teacher about his background.  He was an angel after that.  Surprise surprise. 


So today, we made sure he understood what would happen if he bit or spit or hit (maybe Dr. Suess should have written a book!).  He was a VERY GOOD boy today.  In fact he has been all day.  

Of course, there will be more really bad days, but we were so thankful for a good one today.  God definitely knows our cracking point!  :-)

Thanks for your prayers.

The other kids are all doing great in school so far.  Everyone is happy with their classes and schools.  Matthew is just doing wonderfully.  He listens and pays attention and we fully expect him to come out of his shell!!

Matthew went to the doctor today because his nose has been POURING for a couple of weeks and we've tried everything we could to fix it.  It's been running so much that his nose is broken open all around it and inside.  Not raw, broken open.  The doc said he has infontigo on the outside of his nose so he's on k-flex for 2 weeks to get rid of the infection.

On another note, Eli has become very lethargic and is rather pale again so he's having his blood checked again soon.  The doc wrote the script today.  We'll keep you posted.

I'm on a "clean" eating regimen for the next 9 weeks to try to clear up some issues I've been having because I don't want to live on medication.  So it's no gluten, no sugar, no dairy for at least 9 weeks.  Only WHOLE foods.  I'm on day three and already feel MUCH better.  I've also made the gym a priority again this week and that's helping too, I'm certain.

Mary's coping well with the demands of getting the 5 littlest Malones to school (I take the 2 older ones on my way to the office).  She has enjoyed the alone time with Micah (and so has he).  She also enjoys having the two other crumb crunchers to herself while Micah is resting after school (he demands a lot of attention, you know).

All in all...the Malone Nine are doing well and God is continuing to bless and prosper our family!

Blessed be the Name of the Lord!